Introduction

We have been left with no option but to write this blog as a last resort to get our side of the story out in the public domain to put the record straight. We have not taken this step lightly, putting our private information on this blog, but there are two sides to every story and it is about time our side was heard.

The only way we will accept comments on this blog is through the Contact Us form with Captcha. The reason for this is because our computer system has been hacked and is compromised and this not only eliminates trolls and spam, but gives us the location and IP address of those who wish to comment.

The instigator of our problems here in Spain is my ex-wife Jillian Durkin, who lives in Morecambe, Lancashire and it was her infidelity that led to the divorce. Since then my ex has never let go or moved on and has been very bitter and hate-filled for the past 25 years,. As you read you will see this isn’t because she cared for me, but is the loss of lifestyle, salary and company pension. She has been aided and abetted by my daughter who pretended to have a close relationship with us, and by my adult grandson who came out here and hacked our computer. Both have been heavily influenced by my ex’s controlling behaviour. Our life in Spain was excellent until the interference by my ex started.

As you read this blog you will see that since 1995 my ex has manipulated, funded, and instilled her hatred into third parties in the UK, to destroy Amanda’s secretarial career, slandered Amanda here in Spain and the United States, not only to try to destroy our marriage, but to destroy Amanda’s reputation and art career.

Amanda and I find it beyond belief that people have accepted a one-sided story without question and acted upon the lies that have been perpetrated by my ex, which has had an horrendous affect on our life. At no time has anyone had the decency to contact us to verify the statements that have been made, if they had done so, we would not be in the situation we are in today.

As you read this please bare in mind that Amanda and I have been together 25 years and married for 20 years.

Ron Bilson